Dame Com Review

Dame Com is an external wand vibrator from Dame, the US brand behind the catalogue’s Pom, Arc, Aer and Eva II. Dame’s own product data labels Com an “External Wand Vibrator,” and its FAQ copy places it alongside the classic Magic Wand: a handheld device with a larger, rounded head for broad clitoral contact, built around a curved handle and flexible neck rather than a rigid body.

Venus has not physically tested this product. This review is based on Dame’s official Com product page and its published specifications, checked on 12 October 2026. Where Dame does not document something, this page says so rather than filling the gap.

Quick Verdict #

Com is the pick for someone who wants a documented, flexible-head wand vibrator from a brand with a strong body-safe reputation, rather than a classic plug-in wand or an app-connected one. The specification page covers the essentials: medical-grade silicone badged 100% body-safe, 5 intensity levels and 5 pattern modes, USB-C charging, a 1-hour runtime at the highest setting from a 2.5-hour charge, a travel lock, and a 3-year warranty. The notable caveat is documentary: Dame’s own page states two different sets of dimensions for Com in two different places, so the published size should be read as approximate. It also prices in US dollars (119.00 USD) rather than euros, states waterproofing without an IP rating, gives no decibel figure behind its “low hum” description, and does not publish a product weight.

Format and Who It Is For #

Com is an external-only vibrator built around Dame’s wand format: a bulbed, flexible head on a curved handle joined by a flexible neck, rather than a fixed, straight body. Dame’s FAQ describes wand vibrators generally as “handheld devices with a head designed for focused stimulation of the clitoris and vulva,” and positions Com as an ergonomic alternative to a classic plug-in wand like the Magic Wand, with a setting gentler than the Magic Wand’s lowest; Dame also markets Com as its most powerful motor to date, in a quieter housing than the model it replaces. It suits buyers who want wand-style, broad-contact stimulation and are comfortable with a US-dollar price; buyers who want a smaller, palm-held external vibrator should look at the Pom, and anyone wanting internal G-spot stimulation should look at the Arc.

Documented Specifications #

Dame’s Specifications block lists the material as “Medical Grade Silicone,” with a separate “100% Body-safe” badge elsewhere on the page. The device offers 5 intensity levels and 5 pattern modes via three buttons: power/patterns, intensity up, intensity down. A travel lock is also documented: holding the power button off for 3 seconds locks it until unplugged at the destination.

Power is USB-C rechargeable, with a run time of 1 hour at the highest settings from a 2.5-hour charge. The box contains the Com vibrator, a USB-C cable, a storage bag and a user manual; the only listed color is Sage.

Dimensions are where Dame’s own page is inconsistent. The Specifications block states “10” L x 1.8" W x 1.8" D" (about 254 x 46 x 46 mm), the figure used in this review’s spec table. Elsewhere on the same page, a comparison widget pitting Com against Pom lists a different figure for Com, “10.5” L x 1.75" W x 3.5" D" (about 267 x 44 x 89 mm); that widget’s Pom figure matches Dame’s dedicated Pom page exactly, which is why this review treats the Specifications block, not the widget, as the primary source for Com, while flagging that the two disagree. Dame does not publish a product weight, an app, or a noise level in decibels; a Shopify variant field lists a 383 g “weight,” but that is shipping/fulfillment weight, not a stated product weight, so it is not used here.

Materials, Waterproofing and Cleaning #

Com’s body is medical-grade silicone, badged 100% body-safe, non-porous and appropriate for external intimate use when cleaned correctly. The Specifications block describes it simply as waterproof, without an IP rating, but Dame’s cleaning FAQ goes further: “Com is fully waterproof so don’t worry about submerging it in water.” Clean with mild soap or a compatible toy cleaner and dry fully; Dame advises against alcohol-, petroleum- or acetone-based cleaners, and against boiling, baking or dishwashing the device. Use a water-based lubricant as the default with silicone.

Battery and Warranty #

Com charges over USB-C, so a standard phone-style cable will work. Run time is 1 hour at the highest intensity setting from a 2.5-hour charge - longer than Pom’s 2-hour charge for the same 1-hour runtime, consistent with Dame’s description of Com carrying a “70% bigger battery” than the model it replaces. The standout figure is the warranty: Dame documents 3 years, longer than the two-year terms common elsewhere in the category.

In the Catalogue #

Com vs. the Pom #

Pom is a soft, palm-held, egg-shaped vibrator with no handle, while Com is the wand format: a larger device with a bulbed head on a handle. Dame’s comparison widget pitches “Best for users wanting maximum power - classic wand experience” (Com) against “Best for beginners & experienced users wanting flexible external play” (Pom). Both share 5 intensity levels, 5 pattern modes, medical-grade silicone and a 3-year warranty; Com’s charge time is longer (2.5 hours versus 2) for the same 1-hour runtime, and Com costs more (119 USD versus Pom’s 103 USD).

Com vs. the wands #

Because Dame itself categorizes Com as a wand vibrator, it is worth setting alongside the catalogue’s other reviewed wands on the best wand vibrators page: the Fun Factory VIM (66.95 EUR), the LELO Smart Wand 2 Medium (169.00 EUR) and the We-Vibe Wand 2 (159.00 EUR). All four share body-safe or medical-grade silicone and USB-C charging. The LELO and We-Vibe both document 120-minute runtimes against Com’s 60, and 2-year warranties against Com’s 3. The VIM documents IPX7 and 437 g, and the LELO documents 155 g and 210 x 85 x 45 mm, figures Com’s page does not reliably give. Com’s 119 USD sits between the VIM’s 66.95 EUR and the LELO/We-Vibe’s 159-169 EUR, though currencies are not directly comparable.

Com among the Dame range #

Within Dame, Com is the external wand, Pom the flexible, no-handle palm vibrator, Arc the insertable G-spot and clitoral vibrator, and Aer the contactless air-pulse stimulator, with Eva II the hands-free wearable. Choosing between them is a question of format, since all carry Dame’s medical-grade silicone and multi-year warranty standard. The full line-up is on the Dame reviews hub.

Value Position #

At 119 USD, Com sits in the middle of the catalogue’s wand-format vibrators, and the price is in dollars, not euros, so European buyers should budget for conversion and check for import duties or a local stockist before ordering directly from Dame. The reason to choose it is specific: a flexible-head, medical-grade silicone wand with documented intensity levels, patterns, a travel lock and a 3-year warranty - with the caveat that Dame’s own page does not give one consistent dimension figure. Buyers who want a euro-priced wand with a longer runtime should weigh the LELO Smart Wand 2 Medium or We-Vibe Wand 2 first; first-time buyers can see the first-time buyer page, and the full catalogue is on the best-of 2026 page.